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5/1/2012

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Hello from May! Isn’t it cool that I get the first post of the month? You know, seeing as May is mymonth and all (hint, hint) :P. Anyway, first post of the month also means first blog in a month, since Vlog Every Day April is now over. Vlogging was fun and all, but I’m kind of glad to be back to blogging. It’s a lot simpler, not to mention we’re a lot less likely to have technical difficulties get in the way. And I can answer questions exactly how I want to, without having to try and memorize what I want to say. I feel like Question Tuesday works a lot better in blog form…

 So, life is pretty good. Just three more days of class and 2 days of finals, then I’ll be free! Even though I have 6 classes this semester, only three of them (that I know of) have finals that I’ll have to show up for next week, so I’m pretty happy with the way the semester is ending  :)
Also coming up is some fun stuff in fencing: we’re having a one touch epee tournament tonight, and then we’re having a movie night next week during finals! It’s going to be a lot of fun.

 And Shelby and Jessica came to visit Friday JAmy already talked about it in her vlog, but it was really fun. We went to see Cabin in the Woods, which I was kind of worried would be really scary. But it was pretty funny. I won’t give anything away, but it was an interesting concept. Go watch it. Then on Saturday we roamed around the campus a lot. We found an open practice room in FAC, so Shelby and Jessica played songs for us. It was fun :) And to round the trip off, we had dinner at... can you guess it? That's right, Pizza Hut!

That’s kind of all that’s going on with my life right now. I hope all of your finals/end of classes are going well. So now it’s time for some questions! I think all of these came from Shelby, making her the undisputed favorite of the week! Love you Shelby! (I especially enjoyed her
second question, as you’ll probably be able to tell)

 What would you do
for a Klondike bar?

Not much. Klondike bars are not among my favorite forms of ice cream. I mean, it is ice cream, so I do enjoy it; it’s just not very high on my preferences list. 

Why is there so much  miscommunication in our culture? Is it because of all of the complicated rules of communication that we have (meaning that we are not socially permitted to be as blunt/clear as we sometimes wish)? Or is there something wrong with our  language? Or is it because we are bad listeners? Etc?
 The way you phrased the question, it makes it seem like
our culture is the only one in which miscommunication features prominently, or at least the one where it is most prevalent. I don’t think that’s accurate. True, it is pretty prominent in our culture. But I’m pretty sure it also features in just about every other culture on the planet (and possibly on other planets, too). I think miscommunication is just a part of human nature. We are not perfect, and communication is part of what we do, so it makes sense that our  forms of communication are far from perfect. Part of this is just the nature of communication itself. Communication is not simple, and it is not one way. There  is nothing absolute about communication, partly because communication depends on the parties involved. Anything anyone says ever will be interpreted one way by the sender and another way by the receiver. Everyone has different  experiences and backgrounds that they bring into a conversation that will  influence how they interpret what they say or what is said to them. Oftentimes,  people are able to interpret the communication in a way that is similar enough that the intentions are clear, but a lot of the time this leads to  miscommunication. Take, for example:

 Sally: give me that pen

Bob: (throws pen to Sally) here you go

 Sally: (not expecting the pen to come flying at her face, responds angrily) I meant for you to hand it to me, not throw it!

 See, Sally and Bob each had a different interpretation of  the meaning of the phrase “give me that pen.” Sally meant for Bob to get up and  bring it to her, while Bob thought it would be ok just to throw it. Both are  reasonable interpretations of the request, but the different interpretations  caused a miscommunication. And this is just the potential for a simple request to go awry. Think of all the complications that can set in when people try to  communicate about more complex, abstract topics, like feelings and political views.

 Of course, it does help when people try to consider other  people’s perspectives when communicating. Choosing words with clear and specific meanings can reduce the likelihood of a miscommunication or misunderstanding, but there’s no way to eliminate it altogether. And there are plenty of features of communication that increase the likelihood of misunderstandings. One of these is the norms and unspoken rules in a given culture. In any culture, there are things that it is not considered appropriate to speak openly about, and there are things that people feel compelled to talk around. In general, people who understand this will be able to understand the resulting insinuations, but anyone unfamiliar with these customs will be very likely to misunderstand the conversation or even be left completely baffled. That’s part of the difficulty in learning foreign languages: you are not just learning vocabulary and grammar; you are learning idioms and common phrases that mean more than just what the vocabulary indicates. Euphemisms, metaphors, similes, and other forms of figurative language are all features of language that make it more interesting and diverse, but they also add to the complexity and, thus, the likelihood for miscommunication.

 There are plenty of other reasons why miscommunication is so common: if language is complicated, the body language that accompanies it is a million times more complex and difficult to interpret. And sometimes people  intentionally set out to interfere with clear communication. Also, back to the  human imperfection I was discussing earlier, there are people who are better at  communicating than others, either because they are able to get points across  clearly or because they are good at listening and paying attention to what
  people say. But even the best of communicators will sometimes give vague  directions or zone out for a second and completely miss the point of a  conversation. Words are our primary means of communication, and they only have  meaning because we give them meaning, which complicates things even more. Words  may have set denotations, for example, but different connotations (some people  think nerd is an insult, others consider it a compliment) and associations  (most of the readers of this blog would know what I meant if I began to discuss
 lasagna or beef jerky, while the rest would be confused about why I was having  such a serious discussion about food) for different people. And sometimes  people omit information that’s important to understanding what they mean,  either because they think it’s implied, or because they simply forget. Overall,  communication depends on people, and people are flawed, so communication is  too.

Sorry my answer was so long, but I remember talking about  this in my Communications class last year, and I thought it was a really  interesting topic J:)

What is your favorite joke?
 That’s like asking what my favorite song is. I have heard
  thousands of jokes in my life, and just because you asked this question, I
can’t think of a single one of them right now…

 This is one of those cop out questions, isn’t it? Ok, well to (sort, of) fix that, I have a challenge! Everyone tell me your best jokes in the comments, and I’ll pick my favorite next week! That sound ok?

 What is the best amusement park in the world?
 Well, I haven’t been to that many amusement parks. Of the  two I’ve been to, Six Flags Kentucky Kingdom was the best. Of all the rest, I’d  say probably Harry Potter World. Hopefully I’ll get to find out for sure some  time :)

 What makes someone your best friend? (and/or what makes someone a good
friend?)

 I feel like these are pretty individual. Everyone will cite different qualities that they see in best/good friends. In general, I’d say a good friend is someone who understands you: your background, your strengths, your weaknesses, your annoying characteristics. He/she knows you and still wants to hang out with you, even in public :P Good friends are also willing to help
you out of tough situations, even when it’s inconvenient for them. And best friends have all these qualities, just more so, I guess. 

I feel like that wasn’t the best answer. Feel free to offer your own definitions if you want :)

 What books are you
  dying to read right now?

 Well, I definitely want to read a couple of books John Green recommended: Ms. Peregrine’s Home for Peculiar Children and The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight. I also want to read more books by John Green, since I’ve so far only read his first (Looking for Alaska) and most recent (The Fault in Our Stars). I can’t think of any non-vlogbrothers-related books on my list right now. Is that a problem? :P

 If you could banish someone to some far off place where you’re never going to go, would you send someone? Who would you send? And where?
 No… why would I want to banish someone? That would be mean.

 And one question from Amy! If you had to kill someone or be killed or the world would end, would you do it?
 Well, if God decides it’s time for the world to end, who
am I to go against Him?

 So that’s all for today! Congrats to my favoritest Shelby, and please leave Questions for next week! Also jokes, so I can actually pick a favorite…
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Jill
4/30/2012 11:39:57 pm

This comment comes to you in eight parts, just like voldemort's soul

1) We're JAmy now, huh? I'm not sure I appreciate having my individuality taken away :P
2) And I still think you guys would have liked Mellow Mushroom
3) And hey, not all the questions came from Shelby! Amy gave one in her vlog!
4) Awesome miniature essay about communication. I enjoyed it.
5) This isn't my favorite joke or anything, but I found this site of 'anti-jokes' awhile back and they're just so jarring that I could help but laugh:
What's worse than finding a worm on your apple?
- The Holocaust
Why did the boy drop his ice cream?
- he was hit by a bus
Hope you don't think I'm too weird for posting these.....
6) you should read 'Let it Snow' - John Green is one of the authors, as is Maureen Johnson
7) ah, I see you did remember Amy after all
8) I added this point just so I could say the voldemort thing (and kind of quote John Green)

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Sara
5/1/2012 05:15:39 am

1. Believe it or not, that was a complete coincidence. When I make smiley faces, Weebly turns them into Js, so I have to turn them back myself. I must've missed that one :P
3. I added Amy's question after I saw her vlog and didn't feel like changing the top
4. Thanks :) I enjoyed writing it
5. I love anti jokes!
What's funnier than a pile of dead babies?
Anything. Infant mortality is nothing to laugh about.
6. That was included in the general "anything by John Green" category
7. Told ya :)
8. Like :)

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Jill
5/1/2012 05:19:54 am

I think #2 feels very left out, haha

Jill
5/1/2012 05:45:36 am

What thing that you haven't yet done would you most like to do?
Have you ever imagined a world with no hypothetical situations?
What is something from your life that is most likely, or what you would most want, to end up in a museum?
If you had to relive one year of your life over and over, what year would you pick?
If you could only dress in one color for the rest of your life, what would you pick?
Can you have too much internet? (not as in you as an individual being on the internet, more like can too much of the virtual world exist?)
Can you have too much moderation?
Can you have too much bandwidth?

Oh, and I thought you'd appreciate this:
"Well of course too much is bad for you. Too much of anything is bad for you, you blithering twat - that's what too much means. Too much water would be bad for you. Obviously, too much is precisely that quantity which is excessive - that's what it means!"
- Stephen Fry
(and no, you cannot use this quote to answer any of the 'too much' questions :P that would obviously take all the fun out of it)

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Jill
5/1/2012 05:52:58 am

As if those weren't enough questions already, you could maybe also do what John Green did in today's video *coughcopycattingftwcough* and answer all the question's addressed to Charlie. haha
Also, I partially posted this just because I realized I'm dominating the comments section right now and I wanted to continue the trend :) Huzzah! 4/5

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Sara
5/1/2012 06:50:04 am

Stephen Fry ftw!
And I like your copying John Green who copied Hank Green/Charlie idea :)

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Rachael
5/1/2012 11:52:12 am

Jill--haha voldemort's soul...

Why do we call seagulls seagulls?
Because calling them bagels would just be silly.

How is mello mushroom btw? I propose we gather there once we all are back in the states! (when is Amy leaving though?..)

questions!
If you wrote a book, what genre would it be? Would it be for children, teens, or adults?

How was the sushi? I didn't get to see your reaction on Jill's vlog...
mmmmm..man puko sounds so good right now...

Is it ethical to kill/eat animals? Should it be considered specie-ism?

If you could live in another time period, other than this one, what would it be?

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Jill
5/1/2012 12:13:09 pm

Mellow Mushroom is really good :) at least the one time I went there in BG was really good, and everytime I been to one out of town it's been really good. And I like that idea! Amy leaves around May 20th though, so before you get back.

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Jill
5/1/2012 01:55:02 pm

oh, and if you want to see Sara's reaction, I just edited my last post to include links to the video clips that were blacked out of the vlog.

dwain
5/2/2012 11:18:36 am

Kudos to Jill for the Stephen Fry quote. I love Stephen Fry.

here's my joke for the grammar nazi:
-Knock Knock

-Who's there?

-To

-To who?

-To WHOM

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Sara
5/2/2012 01:03:26 pm

:D

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Rachael
5/2/2012 02:12:02 pm

Then when does Amy get back?

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Sara
5/3/2012 12:25:42 am

Start of August-ish, i think?

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Jill
5/3/2012 02:45:20 am

technically she gets back at the end of July




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